Memphis, TN

Last Thursday, Brent and I left for Memphis, TN along with Brent's brother, Craig, and his wife, Esther, to be with the family during his dad's brain surgery. Unfortunately, the outcome was not what we had prayed for, but we as a family have peace knowing that nothing is out of God's control. I have included a couple of pictures of our time together as a family. We had moments of weeping together, but we had many enjoyable moments together as well.

The hospital where we spent the weekend together

Some of the family is still there, so please continue to pray for them as well.

Since Brent's dad has been in ICU, there are only 4 designated times when the family can visit him. This pic (above) was actually taken the day of surgery. All of us were emotionally drained... some of us were smart enough to rest at the hotel where cameras weren't present :-) The Lord did provide accommodations for us at a hotel just across the street. We weren't sure what they would be like, but they ended up being great. It also worked out very well to be that close by. Brent's sister, Pam, even went over one afternoon to rest awhile.

We are so grateful to Brent's brother, Stan, and nephew, Brandon, who graciously loaned us their two lap top computers!! We spent much time researching and keeping the Caringbridge site updated.

Craig, on the verge of "needing duct tape"!!! ;-) A family saying that was started on this trip... and will probably remain within the family!!!

On Sunday, we met together as a family for a time of singing, sharing, and praying together at a little chapel in the hospital. We then went out together to eat BBQ; Brent's mom hadn't left the hospital for 6 days, and since Dad was stable, she graciously went with us.

While Brent and I were gone, the kids remained at home with the older ones holding down the fort; not a small task with a large family!! A big thanks to Kara who had a huge responsibility, especially since this was such a last minute decision; I think she had a 2 hour notice! Friday after surgery, when the bad news came back that it was iffy whether their grandpa would make it through the night; Justin, Laura and Braxton came over to spend the evening and night with them. I think it was helpful for them all to be together as a family. Braxton was also a great distraction!!!

When I first saw this picture, I was horrified; but I was informed that the water is only ankle deep, and someone was sitting beside him.

Braxton and Uncle John cuddling

Braxton getting attention from Aunt Bethany